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When I decided to date Gia, I was excited. I’ve always thought of her as a person full of strength and energy, and she’s still growing. I think as her friend, it is a very happy thing to learn and grow with her.

When the two of us decided to meet her, I was a little torn, after all, it is not a particularly easy thing to date her. So we decided to meet one month after we studied together.

Because I felt ready to see her, I started thinking about what to say to her before that point.

During this month, I wrote down what I wanted to share with Gia on my mobile phone memo. When we communicated on wechat, I opened the memo and showed it to her, so that we could have a voice call directly.

My first date

The first time we met was when I waited for her in the office. After we met, we went to have dinner together. During the meal, she encouraged me all the time and hoped that I could apply what I had learned to real life.

Because I wasn’t mature enough, I didn’t open myself up enough to apply what I had learned to the real world. But she gave me a lot of courage to say what I think and what I think about things. This is one of the things I particularly like to communicate with her, she can encourage me very well.

Over the course of the meal, we discussed some aspects of personal growth together, which was very relaxing. It feels like time flies because we’re both doing what we love.

After dinner, we went shopping together, and I bought some presents for her. This is what happened on my first date with Gia.

How did we feel when we first met Gia?

When we first met, we didn’t know what we would talk about, so I thought we would talk about learning or growing up.

I felt like I was talking to her, and I could definitely feel that she was improving.

Because she has more sense of purpose than I do, and she can get her ideas out through conversation. When I chat, I talk more about what I want to say, and rarely take the initiative to express my true thoughts.

So the first time to meet Gia, feeling is very good.

Since it was around 8 p.m., I asked her to see the movie Green Book.

When Gia and I met in front of the movie theater, she saw me standing there alone with a heavy suitcase, and she came over and said, “You came this far alone?”

Gia said: “Yes”!

Gia said to me: “Then you go in first! I’ll just put it away!”

“Ok,” I replied with a smile.

Thank you, Gia

When the two of us met for the first time, we didn’t know what to say. We just talked for a while. It felt like there wasn’t much to talk about. In this way, we took her to the station.

I tried to walk her to her car, but she didn’t let me. Instead, she got on the car with her luggage. When she got in the car, I texted her, “Gia, you got here so fast.”

I also sent her a message: Gia, nice to meet you. Then we talked until the driver picked us up, and we didn’t text each other the whole way. At this time, Gia got off the bus at the destination. Then the two of us separated and went back to our separate homes.

I texted her afterwards: “Thank you Gia for letting me talk to you”.

She replied, “Don’t mention it. I’ll talk to you later.”

In addition to the content of the course, I also gained other things during this study. Gia’s company and support also made me feel very warm and happy.

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