My date with Betty was like a big date, and I was the star of the date. It was a date of the heart.
Who is Betty? She was a child who did not want to grow up. She was tall and beautiful. She was an elf.
Since March this year, I have a secret plan: I will ask her out in March, if she agrees, then we will travel together.
Looking for my angel
In early March, while searching the Internet, I came across betty here, so I clicked through and found several of her articles, as well as her “Mind notes.” As I read more and more, I became interested in betty, and I wanted to get to know her and even talk to her. Then, at the end of March, I finally found betty in person.
betty was a human being like me. She was special because she had a dream, a purpose, and a love of life. So I’ve been watching betty for months.
I couldn’t meet betty because of the pandemic and my work. But I can communicate with her on my phone. The following conversation ensued:
“What have you been up to?”
‘Not doing anything!
“Oh! Is it?”
“Yes! I’m writing a book right now!”
“Then you can write it, too!”
“Well! When I first started writing this book, I didn’t know how to write it either!”
Love someone as you love everything in the world
Love a person, just like love everything in the world, because love can contain everything.
We were lovers from the beginning, but it wasn’t a man/woman relationship. Love is between two people, but if someone comes into our life, we have to accept him. Because in front of the people you love, you can take off all the pretense, don’t have to put on a mask to deal with all kinds of people and things. Even when you’re in trouble, when things don’t go your way, it doesn’t matter.
The best thing a person can do for another person is: to love her, to accommodate her all.
In relationships we often say things like “I love you” and “I will be nice to you for the rest of my life”. But there aren’t many people who can actually do this to you.
I never did that with betty. I always tell her, very sensibly, “We’re not a couple right now. You get along with him, and one day when I’m ready, I’ll consider your feelings.”
If I were a few years younger, I would choose to love this way
I had a crush on someone who stood by me through the toughest times and gave me great warmth and strength, so I always wanted to find this person.
A month ago, I finally had a chance to meet him. Luckily, we are also a couple. When I saw him, I felt happy and looking forward to it, but when he saw me, he was much more nervous than before.
We smiled at each other and hugged. He said, “How did you get so fat?” “Ha ha.” In fact, these words to me is also a kind of comfort, at least this will not let me become so sad.
We shared each other’s troubles and joys without embarrassment.
Afterwards, we all went to dinner; We all drank; We’ve all been drinking too much.
Separate each other to say goodbye; Then he went back to bed and slept soundly; Wake up the next day as if nothing had happened and continue to work, go to class, do housework, eat…